Enjoying Is Not Something I Find, It’s Something I Carry
Enjoy, be happy, is one of the maxims that we want to achieve in this life. In fact, since we are born, we are urged to seek that happiness that it seems we do not have.
We believe that a sunny day is something positive, whereas a rainy day is something sad. Why does something external have to affect us? Is it that perhaps our enjoyment, our happiness, depends on everything outside?
Today you will realize that nothing can drown your happiness, your enjoyment, because that depends only on you. Happiness is not found, it is not sought. Sometimes we look for what we already have, but haven’t seen yet.
I will enjoy everything I own
It is important that if you want to enjoy, if you want to be happy, you must start enjoying here and now. Stop saving those dishes for special moments! Clothes for the weekend?
Eliminate from your mind all those limitations that only you put on yourself. Do not save, do not withhold for another time. If you want to enjoy something and you can, do it now!
It is no longer just a matter of living each day as if it were your last, it is a matter of making the most of everything we have around us.
Let’s stop reserving certain things for special questions, because every day, every moment, is a special question! Don’t save anything for tomorrow, enjoy the things you have.
Think that everything you have is to be spent. The fact put things away for another day, just something we want is to postpone, postpone our enjoyment. Isn’t that something a bit strange? If we like something and want to enjoy it, the normal thing would be to use it, do it now.
We may be acting incorrectly for various reasons. Unreasonable reasons that we must eliminate in order to enjoy.
Just as to love someone you must first love yourself, to be able to enjoy others and others, you must first learn to enjoy yourself.
Imagine a woman who cannot enjoy her clothes or anything else. The non-enjoyment does not reside in the clothes, but in herself who does not feel good about herself. We tend to blame things, when we do not know that the problem lies with ourselves.
Here’s something important! Enjoyment, happiness, is found in nothing! It is simply born from within, it is within ourselves.
You don’t need external stimuli to feel good, you don’t need a sunny day to know that today will be a great day … You just have to look inside yourself and release the joy that you have hidden and repressed.
You don’t have to be happy, you don’t have to leave anything to enjoy at another time … Think of the here and now, look at everything you have around you.
Enjoy is in me
We have a problem, and that is that we are never satisfied with what we have. This causes us not to value things and not people. We think that everything good, all enjoyment, all happiness, must be sought, because we presuppose that we are not born with it, that we do not have it. It’s like getting a degree or a job, it requires time, training, experience …
Our happiness is nothing of this kind, we have always had our happiness. The problem is seeing it as something unattainable and continually making it difficult for us to enjoy what we have.
They tell us that we have to live in the moment, that we should value things, but we look around us and we feel empty or unhappy. You are your present and you are your happiness.
Don’t be afraid to enjoy yourself, don’t be afraid to be happy. Accept that you already are, you have only been blind and your actions do everything possible to prevent you from enjoying what you truly want. Change this, enjoy is something you take with you!
Images: M.Macarthy Devianart
